Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Back to Home Sweet Home

Mom was discharged late Monday afternoon, with much improved white blood cell counts and platelet counts. With improvement of these numbers, her immune function was back up and running, so goodbye thrush, mouth sores, and gastrointestinal infection, hello Uncle Eric's creamed spinach.

And that's not all... after arriving home, she did a meditation, took a nap, housed aforementioned creamed spinach, some lentil and lamb stew, followed by chocolate pudding with whipped cream. Appetite: check.

This morning we were right back at the Cancer Center (hence the tardy blog entry) for intrathecal chemo therapy in her Ommaya port. Her blood work was all where we'd like it to be, so chemo was a go.

To review: she receives intrathecal chemotherapy on Tuesdays and Fridays with the hope that this will keep her cerebral spinal fluid clear of cancer cells (which it has been for some time). If it continues to stay clear, they may reduce these treatments to once weekly.

The systemic chemotherapy directly into her bloodstream is given once every month, and is a combination of 4 chemotherapeutic drugs. These are the treatments that REALLY wipe her out by destroying her immune system and sucking up all her energy. Because this chemo makes her white blood cell counts go so low, she becomes prone to infection, and often has to miss a few doses of her intrathecal chemotherapy. What I want to make really clear, is that none of this is necessarily a bad thing!

We want the chemo to rock her system to the core and kill all the cancer, and it might have really bad side effects with it, but as her immune system rebuilds, these side effects go away, and her energy returns. It is a hard two weeks, but think of it this way: she sleeps a lot and doesn't take visitors or lots of phone calls because she is using every ounce of energy to heal herself from the inside out.

In the meantime, we give her lots of fluids to flush the chemo through and out, and keep her hydrated and nourished as best we can. If things are too hard to manage at home, we book ourselves a few nights at Hotel St. Frannie.

So, today is exactly two weeks from her last systemic chemotherapy, and she's chowing down food, checking email, delegating insane to-do lists to Gwennie and I, swearing at the computer for not working fast enough, and making video rental requests. AKA she's feeling a heck of a lot better.


6 comments:

liv4him said...

BABETTE!

WOW, is that ever refreshing to read! I feel so helpless so far away, yet blessed to hear you have such a troop of angels around you, feeding & caring for you, and that you are doing well. I wish so much I could be there to feed, clean, cook, etc., but the one thing at least that I CAN do that is most powerful is pray, pray, pray! God is bigger than all this, and I first & foremost pray that you have peace that passes understanding in the midst of this trial. I think I finally figured out how to post on this blog, but out there in e-space are many a comment I wrote & lost. :-) I read and re-read all the blog posts, only to sit here powerless to comment. :) Just consider yourself posted-to. I'll just summarize it all with:

I LOVE YOU!!!!!

Love,

Michou

Mrs. Ammendolia said...

Monica you and your family are utterly amazing! I have been doing my best to keep up with your blogs and I have not even met your mom, but she sounds like an incredibly strong woman. You and your sister obviously have inherited those traits from her. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Love, Kathleen Ammendolia

Tom Smith said...

I'm so happy to read that she is feeling a bit better, eating and being the boss again. You two girls are the best meds for your mom.. As for the do to list,if you need help please call me, we are here for you. Thanks for the post we think about your mom everyday.

hugs and kisses to all of you

Tom Smith

Claude said...

Monica and Gwennie,
Thank you for keeping us posted. I understand that this is yet another item on your already-overfull to-to lists. We out in cyber-space are grateful nonetheless.
I am here in Maine with your Papa Bear, who is feeling much better. The chiropractor alleviated his sciatica pain, and PT has all but rid him of leg pain. I'm hoping we'll go for a walk to Walker Park before his nap.
Charlotte, Mitri and Mokus are also relieved with this new blog. Thank you again.
Much love, Tante

Elizabeth said...

10th Porter's Reunion, kiddo! Bess is en route and planning for a brief "Monica Mom" sighting on the weekend. Hope you guys are connected on this. Have a wonderful time. It just cannot be 10 years... Love to all of you. xoxo E

Joy Banach said...

I'm ready to drive Miss Daisy tomorrow (Friday) -- Monica, please plan w/friends from MPS who may be arriving Friday. Will call today. Joy P.S. While using the coin-operating car wash, I had an Aha-Moment -- can't you use same to wash Gwennie + smelly shoes? Just a suggestion.